Do you like the video clip I’ve posted tonight as much as I do? You can just feel the love between the two guys, can’t you? The boy facing the camera looks so happy, Why can’t more gay boys/men find that kind of love?
While I’m on the subject, a young man wrote me last week to say this:
“I’ve been following your posts for years now and I have one real question to ask you. What does it truly feel like to be in love with someone who cares so much about you? After watching Bridegroom again and seeing that real love does exist which i don’t understand cause I’ve never experienced it before. You popped into my head because what you and your boyfriend have together is something that I wish I could experience one day but don’t know how. I do live in MT and just recently graduated from high school and have just been feeling lonely, lost and still confused. Could you give me some advice?”
I have responded to this comment privately, but suffice it to say I have assured this young man it is entirely possible he will find genuine love with another guy if he is persistent, and if he relocates to an urban area with a larger concentration of gay men. Sadly, I don’t think there are many opportunities to meet eligible gay men in Montana.
Look, guys, I know it’s hard, but keep the faith. Your lover boy is out there somewhere.