I actually know a few gay men who think if you’re a bottom then you’re a pussy, which I think is a total load of crap.
Several years ago I wrote a story titled Fuck Me ,,, Please. The story was published in a Cleis Press anthology titled Bend Over Big Boy. The anthology and my story were huge hits, and I later re-published Fuck Me … Please in my anthology titled Sebastian Inlet. In the story an ex-Marine named Forrest surrenders his anal virginity to Tyler in a San Francisco hotel room, and here’s something Tyler had to say about being a bottom:
“Getting fucked can feel very good. When another man’s cock stretches you open—when it gets inside your most private place—it’s a bit freaky at first. When you’re growing up, people tell you only girls get fucked, that a guy who gets screwed is a sissy, a fag, but it’s not true. Having the balls to let another man pump your ass ’til you come—and until he comes—takes a lot of courage. Understand?”
Now, I’m mostly a top man myself, but I have bottomed for my boyfriend many times, and for other guys as well in my sexual past. I can tell you that the experience can be quite pleasing; it’s a whole different way of exploring your sexuality. So, if you are a bottom, I salute you for having the courage to be yourself.
It’s another beautiful and sunny day, here on the island. I don’t have much on my plate today. I’ll work on my novel-in-progress, and I’ll make a run to the supermarket. I’ll also attempt to jog for a mile today, as I continue rehabilitating my knees.
Have a great Thursday, everyone.